There was a period when I could have had a near 100% close rate. Let me explain. There was a point in time when every chubby girl I was hanging with I had either slept with, or they had introduced me to someone that I had later slept with. And if I didn’t sleep with them, I made out with, or had some kind of oral or masturbatory sex with, and didn’t bother pushing it all the way up to sex. First, let me define what a 100% close rate is. Included in the percentage are only women that you have successfully hooked and number closed. Not included are BBW that you have approached and either gotten rejected by or didn’t number close. Also not included are forced number closes from women that didn’t show any kind of indicators of interest in you before getting their number. When I say 100%, I’m referring to having sex with women that have showed indicators of interest in you and you’ve gotten their phone number, or at least having sex with one of their friends. In short, sex was a result of getting a phone number.
1. Introduction
2. basics about BBW
I believe that any decent man that knows the very basics about BBW could have close to a 100% close rate if he wanted. This may sound absurd at first, but it won’t after you’re finished reading this post. Let’s look at Paul Janka. He says that he sleeps with about 11% of the women that he number closes. Think about him for a second. He’s nice looking, dresses well, and has a degree from Harvard. He’s a pretty decent guy, but it really doesn’t make any sense for him to only be sleeping with 11% of the BBW that he number closes. Why don’t men have close to a 100% close rate? There are a few reasons. The number one reason being that they lack patience. As I’ve said before, for most women, they need time to become sexually attracted to a guy. Most men give up on busty women or try to force an outcome before the oversized women are ready. Instead of letting the relationship grow organically, they try to push for a date or sex right away. In turn, the woman doesn’t grow attracted or ever get around to introducing him to her friends.
3. With patience in mind
With patience in mind, many men give up before the timing is right. There are a lot of BBW that are busy trying to jumpstart their careers, are bitter of ex-boyfriends, or just need some time to themselves. This means that they really aren’t going to be trying to see anyone at the moment. Sometimes plus size women meet a guy that the like, but the timing is just off. Stick around, build rapport, and you’ll probably get the girl, or at least be introduced to one of her friends who are ready for a big guy to be in their lives.
4. Men also tend to come on too strong
Men also tend to come on too strong. A lot of BBW are OK with having a cool guy around. This would give the guy time to slowly win her over or at least be introduced to one of her friends. However, when men come on too strong and insist that something happens, this pushes BBW away because they feel like they can’t just chill with the guy without him bugging her. If a guy was smart, he would just let his attraction for the curvy girl occasionally be known, but for the most part not be so aggressive about it.
5. Men social lives
A lot of guys really don’t have any social lives outside of sports and videogames. This means that they aren’t really creating opportunities for building a bond with a chubby girl or one of her friends. Of course BBW are busy and will have their own things going on, but if you’re a cool guy, and you casually invite them out to some kind of social event, sooner or later, they’re likely to come out. And if they have fun while they’re out with you, they’re more likely to invite you out with them or come out with you when you invite them out again.
6. Conclusion
If you’re a pretty cool, decent guy, then you will inevitably be one of the first in line when a chubby woman or one of her friends are ready to date or have sex with a guy. BBW tend to hook-up with men that they have some kind of familiarity with. And at the same time, their friends are more trusting of a guy when he is a friend of a friend. If you number close a big girl, not giving up because you’re not getting a date or sex right away, not being overly aggressive, keeping the line of communication open, and giving the busty girl overall good vibes about you, then it isn’t a matter of IF you will hook-up with a curvy girl or one of her friends, it’s a matter of WHEN.